Improving Relationships at Work

I recently had the working managers in my MBA class on execution (as in implementation, not hanging) undertake an exercise to improve relationships with the people with whom they work.  In particular, we were interested in whether or not they could improve their affinity (liking) for people they currently did not like very much.  They

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Burn the Boats

It is said that when Caesar invaded England, he burned his boats to let his men know that there was no way home. The only options were victory or death.  For most of us, the idea of cutting off all retreat is unnerving.  We like to keep our options open, to have a back door

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The Two Sides to Getting “More Accountability”

Have you ever heard someone say, “What we need around here is more accountability”?  If so, you are in good company because accountability, how to get it, and why people don’t have more of it is a popular topic in today’s workplace.

I encounter this complaint from the managers in my MBA classes as well as

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Common Ground and Performance

Why don’t people perform the way we expect them to?  Perhaps you have asked yourself this question, or participated in a discussion with others related to it.  Although there are many answers that could be provided, one that has recently caught my attention is the role of common ground.

I was recently at a holiday dinner

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Convert Expectations into Agreements

Don’t risk being held to account for things you don’t know about. Take the time to find out what people really expect you to do, and what they expect you to deliver.  If they don’t tell you, ask.

I recently had a conversation with a manager who was disturbed by her inability to meet the

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“High Priority” Isn’t A Deadline

Laurie and I recently conducted a training program on The Four Conversations for a group of project managers.  Since most of the managers were from the same organization, they all encountered the same problem when given an assignment.  Rather than being told a due date or deadline by when the assignment was to be completed,

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Listening to the “Other” Side

I recently read The Things People Say, a column by staff writer Elizabeth Kolbert for The New Yorker in which she reviews Cass R. Sunstein’s book “On Rumors: How Falsehoods Spread, Why We Believe Them, What Can Be Done.” In the article, Kolbert talks about how, and why, in the face of the quadrillions of

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The Fundamental Error in Managing Others

While flying home from a weekend visit with my son in Houston, Texas, I got a flash of insight into why it is so difficult to train managers to be more effective.  I was reading “The Psychology of Judgment and Decision Making” when I realized managers make a fundamental error in their understanding of what

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Incentives Don’t Work? Part II

If you read my earlier post on Incentives Don’t Work, then you know that Dan Pink’s TED video raises some interesting questions about incentives.  In particular, he raises questions about the role of external incentives and their impact on non-routine, creative, or innovative work performance.  His point is well made.  Research has long known that

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Motivating Others Is Easy IF You Stop Trying To

On September 29, I started my MBA class on Leading and Managing Change in Organizations.  Unlike my prior classes, this is a mix of working professional and fulltime students.  One of the questions I asked them was “What’s important to you?  What do you really want out of this class?”

Although there were a variety of

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