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		<title>Have We Gotten Leadership Wrong?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 01:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Is it possible that our current approach to leadership is insufficient for creating and developing leaders?  Given the amount of time and money that is spent on leader development, along with the number of books and articles that have been written on the subject, you would think that we would have a much better track <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/06/14/have-we-gotten-leadership-wrong/">Have We Gotten Leadership Wrong?</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is it possible that our current approach to leadership is insufficient for creating and developing leaders?  Given the amount of time and money that is spent on leader development, along with the number of books and articles that have been written on the subject, you would think that we would have a much better track record on producing high quality leaders by now.  That we don’t have a better track record suggests that our understanding of leadership and our approach to its development may be misdirected, perhaps even misinformed.</p>
<p>Our current approach to leaders and leadership can perhaps best be crudely summarized as follows:  “leaders are people who have particular qualities and engage in particular behaviors that result in their being people others choose to follow”.  Leaders, for example, have charisma and inspire people with compelling visions.  They “walk their talk” while enabling and empowering others to act to challenge the status quo and bring about a new future.</p>
<p>Based on this approach, and its many variations, our formula for developing leaders could be called the “Have-Do-Be Formula”.  The application of this formula leads us to employ various training and development techniques to give leaders who wish to become more effective, or non-leaders seeking to become leaders, those qualities (the “have’s”) and practices (the “do’s”) which, if successfully employed, will result in their being leaders or more effective leaders.  The challenge confronting academics, consultants, coaches, and trainers, therefore, is to identify THE “have’s” and “do’s” which truly define leaders and effective leadership and to successfully and effectively convey those to current and prospective leaders so that they too may exhibit them.  That we have not yet identified this holy grail of “have’s and do’s” is evidenced by the countless number of books and articles released every year on the subject of leadership.</p>
<p>Given the pervasiveness of the “Have-Do-Be Formula”, why is it that we do not see far more dramatic results in the development of leaders and leadership?  One explanation is that although we have made substantial progress, we still haven’t discovered the essential “have’s and do’s” of leaders and effective leadership.  So the search goes on.  A second explanation is that our training and development is not completely effective, so even though if we have found the essential “have’s and do’s”, we aren’t able to develop them fully in others.  Yet a third explanation is that we are good at training people in the essential “have’s and do’s”, it just that they do not fully implement them.</p>
<p>No doubt there is some validity to each of these explanations.  What is somewhat disturbing, however, is that none of these explanations focus on whether the underlying formula is valid.  After years of teaching practicing managers and reading the literature on leadership, I have come to question the validity of the underlying model and no longer teach it in my MBA management classes.</p>
<p>The “Have-Do-Be Formula” assumes leaders and leadership exist independent of assessment and interpretation.  That is, it assumes there ARE leaders and there IS leadership as an objective occurrence in the world that any competent observer can see and that differences in perceptions are either contextual differences or error variance.  But what if we are not simply describing some objective state or condition, but are instead reporting on a contextualized interpretation based on some experience? That is, what if the “have’s and do’s” we believe lead to being a leader have nothing to do with being a leader or effective leadership, but are simply the result of our attempts to differentiate, after the fact, between people we call leaders and people we don’t?  If this is the case, then we are treating the consequences of leadership and being a leader (i.e., the “have’s and do’s”) as the causes.  What this means is that rather than a “Have-Do-Be Formula”, we would have a “Be-Do-Have Formula”.</p>
<p>What do you think?</p>
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		<title>Effective Workplace Communication Requires Using the Right Conversation</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 23:43:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>How often have you heard (or made) one of the following complaints (or some variation thereof):</p>

We have a real communication problem here.
They don’t tell us anything, and when they do tell us, it’s not much.
They never give us enough information.

<p>The absence or inadequacy of communication is one of the most frequently voiced complaints in the <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/05/12/effective-workplace-communication-requires-using-the-right-conversations/">Effective Workplace Communication Requires Using the Right Conversation</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How often have you heard (or made) one of the following complaints (or some variation thereof):</p>
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<li>We have a real communication problem here.</li>
<li>They don’t tell us anything, and when they do tell us, it’s not much.</li>
<li>They never give us enough information.</li>
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<p>The absence or inadequacy of communication is one of the most frequently voiced complaints in the workplace.  Perhaps the only complaint more frequently voiced is some version of “there is no leadership”.  Interestingly, the complaint is always from people on the receiving end, never on the sending end.  In fact, if you talk to leaders and managers, they are likely to tell you they are “always communicating” with people.</p>
<p>So, when it comes to communication in the workplace we have this interesting conundrum: leaders and managers insist they are communicating, but people on the receiving end insist they are getting no or poor communication.  Is this simply an issue of misperception?  In some cases, but misperception does not account for all of it.  In fact, my research and experience indicates that misperception accounts for very little.  The bigger factor is that managers don’t distinguish among the types of conversations they are using and whether they are using the appropriate conversations.</p>
<p>There are numerous articles that offer recommendations on how to improve workplace communication.  <a href="http://www.businessperform.com/articles/workplace-communication/effective_communication.html">One article</a>, for example, proposes that managers change the style, method, content, timing, and frequency of their communications.  <a href="http://www.examiner.com/x-14190-NY-Workplace-Examiner%7Ey2009m6d16-8-Tips-to-Improving-your-Workplace-Communication-Styleand-Keeping-your-Job">Another article</a> recommends such things as avoid gossiping, getting overly personal, or raising controversial subjects.  Although these recommendations all contribute to more effective workplace communication, they all ignore one simple fact – not all conversations are the same.  If managers use the wrong type of conversation, or use the right one inappropriately, getting the style, content, etc. right won’t make any difference.  They will still be ineffective.</p>
<p>Many people erroneously believe that understanding is the source of action.  Understanding may be necessary for action (e.g., you can’t sum a column of numbers if you don’t know addition), but it is not sufficient to get people to act (e.g., knowing how to add doesn’t mean you will tabulate the column of numbers).  A result of this belief is that considerable attention is given to trying to improve the chances people will understand our communications.  The assumption being that if people clearly understand and comprehend the communication, then they will behave in the desired manner.</p>
<p>Check it out for yourself.  How many times have you “explained things again” when people didn’t do what was expected?  Or how often have your heard (or said) something like “What didn’t they understand?” or “How could they not understand this?”  I have found in my work with managers that when they don’t get what they expect, their explanations frequently become longer and more detailed.  They earnestly believe that people didn’t do what was expected because they didn’t understand something.  And if the longer explanation doesn’t work, managers blame the other person for being lazy, stupid, uncommitted, incompetent, etc.  Rarely do managers consider that they may be using the wrong conversation to get what they want, or that if they are using the right conversation, they are using it inappropriately. Understanding is only one of <a href="http://www.usingthefourconversations.com/">four types of conversations</a> used by managers.</p>
<p>There is only one type of conversation that reliably gets people into action and that’s a performance conversation.  Performance conversations involve making requests and getting promises.  Although there are a variety of ways (styles?) one can go about making requests and getting promises, they all boil down to asking the other person to take an action or produce a result within a specified time period.  For example, “Will you schedule a brainstorming session of our lead designers for the last week of April?”</p>
<p>If what you want to accomplish is people taking a specific action or producing a specific result within some time period, then the appropriate conversation to use is a performance conversation.  On the other hand, if you what you want is to inform people, develop a plan for accomplishing a goal or objective, or have them understand something, then the appropriate conversation to use is an understanding conversation.  However, if you use an understanding conversation on the assumption it will lead to people taking specific actions or producing desired results, you and the people with whom you have the conversation are likely to be very disappointed.  They will not know what actions or results you want or by when, and you will not get the actions and results you expect.</p>
<p>And what do you think the result of this disappointment will be?  Well, among other things, they are likely to say “We weren’t told”, “The communication wasn’t clear”, or “We weren’t given the right information.”  In other words, they will blame “poor communication”.  You, on the other hand, may say something like “I don’t get it.  I told them everything they needed.  What more do they want?”  In other words, you will say there was sufficient communication.</p>
<p>Sounds like the very conundrum we started with, doesn’t it?</p>
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		<title>What Name Tag Will He Wear?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 01:45:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>How do you synchronize work when you can’t talk to each other?  What allows people to know who you are and what you are accountable for if you can’t tell them?  One way is through the use of “signage” which refers to the use of any kind of visual graphic created to display information to <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/04/21/what-name-tag-will-he-wear/">What Name Tag Will He Wear?</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How do you synchronize work when you can’t talk to each other?  What allows people to know who you are and what you are accountable for if you can’t tell them?  One way is through the use of “signage” which refers to the use of any kind of visual graphic created to display information to a particular audience.  And when people ignore the signage, it can create problems, as I recently discovered.</p>
<p>Signage is a critical part of an effective infrastructure that allows for “silent” (non speaking) communication.  We rely on signage every day to navigate through work.  Signage is used to guide and direct traffic, get us into and out of buildings, and tell us which restroom we should use.  Signage, in the form of uniforms, also makes it possible for us to know who we are talking to, who belongs to which group, and what people are accountable for.  We depend on signage to help us coordinate work.  Given our reliance on signage, therefore, it should not come as a surprise that failing to play attention to it can create performance breakdowns.</p>
<p>I work on a conference project where people are assigned to different teams.  Each team has a particular accountability and must coordinate their part of the conference with others.  One way we distinguish who is on which team is by the type of name tag they wear.  That way, when the conference is happening, we can tell instantly who is suppose to be in certain places and who isn’t – all without ever talking.</p>
<p>In a way, it is like the way the teams on the flight deck of an aircraft carrier distinguish themselves by the color of their uniforms.  Since the flight deck is loud, oral communication is not always possible or effective.  And, because the deck is dangerous, it is imperative that coordination get done or people die.  One way the Navy accomplishes the necessary coordination is through the use of colored uniforms.</p>
<p>Although the conference I work on is nothing like the flight deck of an aircraft carrier, effective coordination of it nevertheless requires being able to know who is who quickly, and in many cases, quietly.  We do that though name tags.</p>
<p>Recently the client we do the conference for said that a new person was going to be at the conference doing work for them.  “No problem”, we said, “what name tag will he wear?”  Rather than answer the question, they proceeded to explain what he would be doing at the conference and why it would be important and valuable.  They didn’t understand that we were asking a question about infrastructure and they answering a question about activity – they are not the same.</p>
<p>We didn’t want to know what he would be doing, we wanted to know how to “tag” him so that people at the conference could appropriately coordinate with him.  We explained that if he wears a conference participant nametag, he will be related to in one way, but if he wears a conference worker nametag, he will be related to in another way.  No one will ask (or even care) what activities he is engaged in other than as they relate to his name tag.</p>
<p>All this over a name tag????!!!!!  Yes, because that is the power of infrastructure.  It is one of the key elements we use in coordinating with the world and each other.  I suspect that there are far more breakdowns and upsets related to issues of infrastructure that many of us imagine.  In our case with the conference, the client had no idea they were violating a piece of infrastructure we rely on for coordination.  Instead, they believed we were being resistant to the person (“You don’t like him?” they asked) and what he would be doing.  Each time we would ask about the “name tag”, they would try to explain what he would be doing.  We were not communicating and both sides were upset, but for different reasons.</p>
<p>I am beginning to wonder how much things like “resistance to change” or “poor performance” are a function of infrastructure breakdowns rather than motivation, leadership, commitment, etc.  What do you think?</p>
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		<title>On Building Infrastructure</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 21:29:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Infrastructure]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>When it comes to improving productivity, our own or others, we frequently look to such things as motivation, commitment, leadership, incentives and rewards, and various other factors (obstacles?) for the answers.  You know, I would be more productive if I was more motivated or committed, or if there was better leadership, or if the incentives <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/04/19/on-building-infrastructure/">On Building Infrastructure</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When it comes to improving productivity, our own or others, we frequently look to such things as motivation, commitment, leadership, incentives and rewards, and various other factors (obstacles?) for the answers.  You know, I would be more productive if I was more motivated or committed, or if there was better leadership, or if the incentives and rewards were greater.  Or, I would be more productive if there weren’t so many interruptions, or if the priorities didn’t change, or if “they” were better organized.  In short, it seems we look everywhere except infrastructure.  But without a sufficient infrastructure, all the other things (e.g., motivation, leadership, etc) will not make much difference.</p>
<p>What do I mean by infrastructure?  All the tools, equipment, facilities, practices, and routines we use to accomplish anything.  Stuff like pens, pencils, computers, desks, computer programs, meetings, agendas, and standard operating procedures are all part of our infrastructure.  Much of our infrastructure is transparent to us, so much so that we can operate without even thinking about it.  We know where to find the coffee cups for our morning coffee, where the shampoo is in the shower, and we drive our cars without consciously considering gas pedal, brake, steering wheel, mirror, etc.  As Nike says, we just do it.</p>
<p>About the only time it seems that we notice much of our infrastructure is when it doesn’t work.  It is at those times that it comes out of the background of transparency and into the foreground of a problem or breakdown.  And when our infrastructure doesn’t work, IT becomes the things we focus on, and our productivity drops.  Just recall the last time your word processing, spreadsheet, or presentation software didn’t work if you want to see the impact of an infrastructure breakdown.  No matter how motivated or committed you are, or how inspired you are by leaders, if the infrastructure doesn’t work, your productivity dives until the infrastructure is repaired.</p>
<p>I believe our infrastructure establishes the limits of our productivity.  For the past several years, I have been focused heavily on publishing academic articles dealing primarily with change management and resistance to change.  My book shelves, both at home and work, my computer files, and the classes I taught were all organized around academic publications in the area of change management.  My infrastructure supported change management, so when I looked around to see what I could work on, all the things in my infrastructure pointed to and called for “change management”.</p>
<p>Recently I was promoted to full professor.  As a result, the “publish or perish” pressure is off and I no longer “have to” publish.  I am really free to work on whatever I want.  Although I have always worked on what I was interested in, the big difference now is that there is no “have to” in the background nagging me to do another article or book.  So, what will I work on with all this new found freedom?</p>
<p>Well initially I found that I continued doing what I had done before.  How could I do much else when all my infrastructure was organized to support someone who was working on becoming a full professor, not someone who was a full professor?  If I wanted to do something different, I would have to build a new infrastructure.  The one thing I knew I wanted to do was play more golf, so I joined the OSU Golf Course.  A new piece of infrastructure that requires I develop new habits and ways of working.  I also just completed taking an inventory of the books in my home office to see what no longer speaks to me.  Interestingly, a number of books I have had for years are now gone.  Next are the computer files.</p>
<p>The leadership literature tells us you need a vision in order to know what infrastructure is required to fulfill it.  But how do you clear the space so that you can see what vision to create?  As I eliminate more of the infrastructure I have depended on for years, I have an experience of less constraint and more freedom to pursue other things.  But I also notice that I have less certainty about what to do.  Our existing infrastructures support who we know ourselves to be.  When we start taking them apart, it can create some uncertainty.</p>
<p>So, I am in the midst of dismantling one infrastructure and building a new one.  I suspect that this will take sometime.</p>
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		<title>How Do I Get My Boss to Change?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Apr 2010 23:33:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I am occasionally asked by the managers in my classes, “How do I get my boss to do this stuff?”  My answer is often the same, “Get interested in what they are interested in.  Find out what they have their attention on, what they are concerned for, and what they are accountable for and then <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/04/05/how-do-i-get-my-boss-to-change/">How Do I Get My Boss to Change?</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am occasionally asked by the managers in my classes, “How do I get my boss to do this stuff?”  My answer is often the same, “Get interested in what they are interested in.  Find out what they have their attention on, what they are concerned for, and what they are accountable for and then help them to win in those areas.  In short, become their partner and then use what you learned to have them be successful.”  Judging from the expressions I get back, I don’t think this is what the people asking were looking for.</p>
<p>Consider the case of Paul (you met him earlier in <a href="../2010/02/01/is-demanding-%E2%80%9Cnow%E2%80%9D-undermining-leadership/">http://professorford.com/2010/02/01/is-demanding-%E2%80%9Cnow%E2%80%9D-undermining-leadership/</a>).  He has consistently had problems with his boss not setting deadlines and calling things “high priority”.  From where Paul sits, this habit is frustrating, inefficient, and ineffective.  So he wants his boss to stopping doing it and start having more complete <a href="http://www.usingthefourconversations.com" target="_blank">performance conversations</a> in which deadlines are established and agreements for actions and results clearly established.  Now, unlike many people who just complain about their bosses, Paul has actually talked to his boss about the issue, but without success.</p>
<p>In the face of his failure, Paul asked, “I need to come up with an angle/pitch that proves unequivocally that the form of “high priority” manipulation my boss uses is inefficient.  I need to detail a &#8220;process&#8221; to help him make better requests more efficiently. Any thoughts, resources, and editorial skills are welcome.”</p>
<p>I told him, “If it were me, I would want to know what my boss is concerned about, what he is accountable for and how he wins at his game.  Inefficiency may not be his thing in which case you are showing him something he may not care about. The thing that is likely to interest him is if you can show him that his actions are actually working to limit him getting what he wants or cares about.”</p>
<p>No matter how insane, inane, or just plain stupid the actions of a boss may seem to us, those exact same actions look reasonable, appropriate, and potentially effective from the boss’s point of view.  Bosses and the people who work for them live in different worlds – what looks “wrong” in our world looks “right” in theirs.  So, if you want to understand more about why bosses do what they do, you will want to learn more about what the world looks like to them rather than judge them from a world they do not inhabit – ours.</p>
<p>Paul raised an interesting issue: “Maybe that is the problem in of itself.  Maybe my requests to understand his concerns are not good enough.  It feels that when the topic comes up I am rebuffed more than answered.  I will have to think some more on that.  Maybe the simple answer is that my request is just not understood?”</p>
<p>What I like about Paul’s response is that he is beginning to consider that maybe he has something to do with how his boss is acting.  Rather than put all the blame on his boss, or make what his boss is doing wrong, Paul is looking at one of the things he can personally control – his own communications.</p>
<p>I told Paul, “Pperhaps he doesn&#8217;t understand why you would want to know what they [his concerns, etc.] are. There are at least two reasons someone might want to know my concerns &#8211; to support me or to thwart me.  Since most people don&#8217;t seem to care about the concerns of others, it can be seen as strange and create suspicion and guardedness.  The key would be to make it clear you are his partner in winning and that your only interest is to support him in winning at what he needs to win at.  Any other reason is worthy of suspicion.  If any of this were the case for him, then the approach would be a <a href="http://www.usingthefourconversations.com" target="_blank">closure conversation</a> to acknowledge the past attempts and your concern that your interest may have seemed out of place and apologize for that.  Then let him know it was out of an interest in support and that you still have that and if he is willing to share with you, you promise your support, thereby creating a new agreement with him [or something like that].”</p>
<p>Bosses are interested in winning at the game they are accountable for to their bosses, and anything we do that does not support them in that is seen as a hindrance, a distraction, or unnecessary.  Paul’s wanting deadlines is something he wants, not something his boss necessarily sees as valuable no matter how often Paul tries to explain it to him.  However, if through the use of deadlines, Paul can have his boss win, his boss is more likely to see the value in deadlines.  Paul now has a choice, complain about the way his boss works, or become a partner to his boss and use what he (Paul) knows to have his boss win.  If what Paul has to offer has value, the proof will be in the results.</p>
<p>Paul wants his boss to use deadlines rather than calling everything &#8220;high priority&#8221;.  One way of accomplishing that is to partner with his boss.  Now he has to decide if he wants to do that, or if he just wants to BMW (bitch, moan, and whine) about his boss – could be a tough choice!</p>
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		<title>Improving Relationships at Work</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 16:57:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I recently had the working managers in my MBA class on execution (as in implementation, not hanging) undertake an exercise to improve relationships with the people with whom they work.  In particular, we were interested in whether or not they could improve their affinity (liking) for people they currently did not like very much.  They <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/03/01/improving-relationships-at-work/">Improving Relationships at Work</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently had the working managers in my MBA class on execution (as in implementation, not hanging) undertake an exercise to improve relationships with the people with whom they work.  In particular, we were interested in whether or not they could improve their affinity (liking) for people they currently did not like very much.  They discovered they could and that it was easier to do than they thought it would be.</p>
<p>There are lots of reasons why we don’t like some people at work: they don’t treat us or others the way we think they should, they create problems for us and others, they don’t do what they say they will, and so on.  For the most part, these differences don’t create problems for us and we can go on about our work without much difficulty.  But occasionally the fact that we don’t like them, or the things they do, gets in our way.  It is at these times that our lack of affinity for them actually works against us; our effectiveness is reduced, our stress increases, and we lose our sense of humor.  Work gets harder and more unpleasant and it takes longer and more effort to get things done.  And, we blame them.</p>
<p>What we fail to consider in all this is that it is OUR lack of affinity for them that is an issue.  It is not surprising that we treat people we like differently than the people we don’t. Nor is it surprising that we use the fact we like or dislike someone as a justification for how we treat them.  When asked why we do or don’t do things for others, we are likely to respond (if truthful) “I like/don’t like them”.   We act as if they are responsible for our liking or disliking them; that it is their fault we don’t have much affinity for them.  As a result, we believe that unless and until they change, our relationship with them has little chance of improving.  We are not responsible.</p>
<p>Like most people, the managers in my MBA class bought into this line of reasoning.  That is, until they did an exercise in which each one of them wrote a letter to three people they didn’t particularly like.  In the letter, they were to write out exactly what they would say to the person to authentically:<br />
1. Acknowledge the person for something they had done but which the manager had not acknowledged, e.g., completing a project on time;<br />
2. Appreciate something about the person, e.g., a good sense of humor;<br />
3. Apologize for a mistake or misunderstanding the manager was responsible for but had not owned up to, e.g., not providing clear directions on an assignment; and<br />
4. Amend an agreement that had been broken but had been stepped over, e.g., an agreement to meet on a weekly basis which wasn’t kept.</p>
<p>What surprised each and every manager was that they had more affinity for the person after they wrote the letter than before.  They discovered that it was their interpretations, assessments, evaluations, and conclusions about the other person that was the source of their liking or disliking them, not the other person.  They realized that they could be responsible for their affinity toward others and that if they were willing, they could shift that affinity.  What they found most exciting was that they could potentially improve their working relationships with other people if they were willing to authentically engage in something as simple as acknowledging, appreciating, apologizing, and amending agreements with them.</p>
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		<title>Inspiration Is Not Enough</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 17:58:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>During a recent meeting with a group of managers from COSI in Columbus, OH, one of them asked about the role of inspired understanding in getting people to do things.  She was proposing that the primary difference between effective managers and less effective leaders was that effective leaders presented their ideas in a more compelling <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/02/18/inspiration-is-not-enough/">Inspiration Is Not Enough</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>During a recent meeting with a group of managers from COSI in Columbus, OH, one of them asked about the role of inspired understanding in getting people to do things.  She was proposing that the primary difference between effective managers and less effective leaders was that effective leaders presented their ideas in a more compelling and inspiring manner that made people “want to do” things.  As a result, she believed people understood what was to be done AND were motivated to do it, and that was really the key to effective leadership.</p>
<p>No doubt, inspired understanding can get people excited and energized, and there are numerous books and websites that focus on being an inspirational leader.  But inspired understanding is not enough.  If it were, Obama and other inspirational leaders would be far more effective and successful than they are.  If leaders want reliable action from others they will need requests and accountability.</p>
<p>One of the biggest mistakes leaders make is to assume that when people understand something, they will take the appropriate actions on their own.  That somehow the excitement and engagement that comes from being inspired will automatically translate into effective action.  Unfortunately, understanding, even inspired understanding,<strong> </strong>does not cause reliable action.  During the 2008 Presidential campaign, there was considerable speculation whether the younger voters who were inspired by Obama would, in fact, vote.  This speculation shows that the link between inspired understanding and action is not direct or tight.</p>
<p>How many times have we attended meetings, conferences, or seminars in which we were inspired by what was said and then left the event and did nothing?  We may have talked about how great the event was, or even what difference it would make if people did the things that were talked about, but then still did nothing.  Or, maybe some of us did take action.  Maybe we were one of the one’s who saw the value and importance in what was said and initiated some actions on our own only to find that no one else was.  No, inspired understanding is not enough.</p>
<p>If leaders want action, reliable action, then the way to get people into action is by having performance conversations in which they make requests and then holding people accountable for their promises through closure conversations. The American Society of Training and Development (ASTD) conducted a study to determine under what conditions people are most likely to complete a task. Their results indicate that people are six times more likely to do something when they promise actions, results, or outcomes to someone else (65%) than when they just hear a good idea (10%).  And they are almost certain (95%) to complete a task when they have a scheduled appointment where they will be held to account for their promise.</p>
<p>Requests provide people with an opportunity to take specific actions that forward the accomplishment of something that may, or may not, inspire them.  Well formulated requests let people know what is wanted and needed, when it is wanted and needed, and why it matters.  Getting people inspired and not making a request gets everyone buzzed, but gives them no outlet for the energy.  As the ASTD study shows, leaders who assume inspired understanding is sufficient will be frequently disappointed.  People may “feel good” about the leader and the message, but little will happen.</p>
<p>But requests must come with accountability.  Accountability is built in the interactions between people in which they account for the status of the promises they made to each other.  As the ASTD study shows, if this accounting does not happen, there is a substantial reduction in the likelihood people will do what they promised.  As a result, leaders lose credibility and trust by failing to follow through on their requests.</p>
<p>Inspired understanding clearly can energize people.  But if leaders want reliable and appropriate actions, they will combine inspired understanding with requests and accountability.  Otherwise, they run the risk of becoming “motivational speakers” people like listening to, but do nothing with what they hear.</p>
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		<title>Burn the Boats</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 00:51:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>It is said that when Caesar invaded England, he burned his boats to let his men know that there was no way home. The only options were victory or death.  For most of us, the idea of cutting off all retreat is unnerving.  We like to keep our options open, to have a back door <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/02/15/burn-the-boats/">Burn the Boats</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is said that when Caesar invaded England, he burned his boats to let his men know that there was no way home. The only options were victory or death.  For most of us, the idea of cutting off all retreat is unnerving.  We like to keep our options open, to have a back door escape, to have a way out.</p>
<p>Escape hatches, however, can undermine our success. When it comes to the promises we make, it helps us keep them if we cultivate a “no alternative” attitude in which failure is not an option.  One way to do this is to root out any talk about “I’ll try”, or “I’ll do my best”, or “I’ll see”.  I have a friend Blair who has a habit of saying “No problem” in response to the requests made of him.  When I first heard Blair say that, I asked, “How can you say ‘no problem’ when you don’t know if it can be done?”  His response was “If I go into something with that point of view, I am much more open to what is required and willing to take it on because I was the one who said it wan’t going to be a problem.  This doesn’t mean it won’t take work or that there won’t be setbacks, there almost always are, it’s just that it gives me a different context in which to work than ‘I’ll try.”  For Blair, saying “no problem” was a way of burning the boats.</p>
<p>Another way to create a “no alternative” attitude is to make promises to people you would never consider not keeping it.  Stephanie, a manager, wanted to hire a staff person.  Her boss, however, was unwilling to commit the additional resources.  Undeterred, Stephanie promised that if the goal for which the staff person was being hired was not achieved, then her boss could not only assign the staff person to someone else, but also reduce her development budget (a big deal in this organization).  By making this promise, which her boss accepted, Stephanie was burning the boats.</p>
<p>If you’re serious about making and keeping a promise, take a tip from Caesar: he wasn’t interested in trying, he was interested in conquest.  As Yoda, the Jedi master in Star Wars said to Luke Skywalker “Do or do not.  There is no try.”   If you want more than half-hearted efforts from people, find a way to help them burn the boats.</p>
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		<title>The Two Sides to Getting &#8220;More Accountability&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 16:20:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever heard someone say, “What we need around here is more accountability”?  If so, you are in good company because accountability, how to get it, and why people don’t have more of it is a popular topic in today’s workplace.</p>
<p>I encounter this complaint from the managers in my MBA classes as well as <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/02/08/the-two-sides-to-getting-more-accountability/">The Two Sides to Getting &#8220;More Accountability&#8221;</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever heard someone say, “What we need around here is more accountability”?  If so, you are in good company because accountability, how to get it, and why people don’t have more of it is a popular topic in today’s workplace.</p>
<p>I encounter this complaint from the managers in my MBA classes as well as those I interact with in the “real world”. They insist that a lack of accountability is the primary source of the problems they have in their organizations.  Laurie (my management consultant wife) encounters it with her clients, some of whom maintain that the reasons for inefficiency and poor communication is because people are not being accountable.</p>
<p>It’s as if “accountability” has become the new mantra of managers or the new solution for whatever problems leaders might be having getting things accomplished.  “If people were more accountable, we would be much better off,” they say.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, the call for “more accountability” is often one sided, focusing on the lack of accountability in others, and fails to recognize that there are two sides to accountability: the “holder” side and the “producer” side.  The two sides are located in different places and both are necessary to have any accountability actually perform.</p>
<p>Holder Accountability is the responsibility of a person who wants something, asks for it, and “holds” that commitment until the result is produced. A person with Holder Accountability might be a manager who wants her team to handle customer service calls, or a supervisor who wants his crew to repair equipment. The manager or supervisor (or parent, or friend) requests what s/he wants and then checks back at the end of the day or week or month to see what portion of the request is completed. The manager holds people to account by asking the customer service team or the repair crew to account for their work, their performance, and their results.</p>
<p>When your boss gives you an assignment and then asks you questions regarding its status, she is demonstrating Holder Accountability, holding you to account for the assignment.  Similarly, if you tell a colleague you will do something for them by Friday and they ask you about it on Thursday or Friday (or the following Monday), they are holding you to account for what you said you would do.</p>
<p>The second side of accountability is Producer Accountability. It is the accountability of the person or group who will be producing the results or doing the work: the customer service phone team and the equipment repairmen who are doing their jobs are demonstrating Producer Accountability. They were assigned to do a job and they are doing it, and they will report on the status and outcomes as needed.</p>
<p>There is no “accountability” without both halves of the equation. If there is nobody making a clear request for something to be done and who cares enough about that request to follow through and see that it actually is performed, there is no Holder Accountability. If there is nobody who accepts the request to perform the work, there is no Producer Accountability. Getting “more accountability” in an organization requires accountability on both sides of the table: manager and staff, boss and worker, or any person who asks for something from another and the person(s) they ask.</p>
<p>Someone else can impose Holder Accountability on us, but only we can impose Producer Accountability on ourselves.  When my doctor gives me a diet to reduce my cholesterol, I don’t think about that as any kind of accountability – until I go back the next year for another blood test. She looks at the blood test results and she can tell whether I’ve kept my part of the bargain or not.  Producer Accountability is completely self-generated, and we have only ourselves to look to if it is missing. My doctor will hold me accountable by saying, “Your cholesterol has improved, but only a little bit. How much did you follow the diet?”</p>
<p>Authentic Producer Accountability says that we own the work we have to do – it is ours.  It’s like saying, “I will look to see what needs to be done to accomplish this, and I will do it. I will get the help and the resources needed, and if I can’t find them, I’ll get back to you and ask for your guidance in how to take the next steps.”</p>
<p>So, what is it that leaders are really calling for when they call for “more accountability” in their organizations? More often than not they want more Producer Accountability.  They want employees to show initiative in taking on work, to own their work, and to do what needs to be done without constant supervision and without excuses.</p>
<p>But here’s the catch: if a leaders does not provide a clear request with a visible outcome that permits a follow-up, they are not living up to their side by providing any Holder Accountability.  Furthermore, if a manager has no commitment to holding people to account, and following up with them regarding their performance, workers will eventually assume the managers doesn’t really cares how, when, or if the work gets done.</p>
<p>It is wishful thinking to expect people to generate a high level of Producer Accountability in the absence of Holder Accountability.  The key to building a culture and organization of “more accountability” starts by creating the conditions for authentic Holder Accountability.  In other words, if managers want more accountability, then they will want to learn how to assign work in a way that makes what people are accountable for clear and then hold them to account. Good Holder Accountability gives people a reason to develop Producer Accountability: with a great manager, I’ll maintain or improve my work performance even when I’m in a bad mood.</p>
<p>How can you improve your Holder Accountability?  Here are some ideas:</p>
<p>1.            Spell out the conditions and measures that must be met in order for the assignment to be considered successful.  People need to know what the job is, and you need to know how to tell if they did it. No fair saying, “Do a better job.” You’ve got to say how you – and they &#8211; will measure success.  People need to know the “what”, and if needed the “how”, they will be held to account for.</p>
<p>2.            Provide specific time lines and due dates for when you’ll be checking back with them. They need to know YOUR timeline for your Holder Accountability, and when they will be expected to give you a status report or a result.  They need to know the “when” they will need to account for.</p>
<p>3.            Follow through on a consistent and regular basis, such as weekly debrief meetings in which people have to report on the status of all their work and make projections about what they will accomplish in the following week. Holder Accountability is all about reliable follow-up on assignments and is where holding them to account actually happens.</p>
<p>As to building Producer Accountability, here are some tips:</p>
<p>1.            Be sure you assign work to people who have the ability to do the job.  When you give a work assignment to someone you know will fail, it will not build their Producer Accountability. It will build resentment, distrust, and cynicism. If you have people who can’t do the job, you may have a training problem but you don’t have an accountability problem.</p>
<p>2.            Be sure people have all the information and resources they need to succeed. You can’t expect people to make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear. You’ll build Producer Accountability by telling people that you want them to be specific about what resources they need, to assemble as much as they can themselves, and to come to you when they need help.</p>
<p>3.            Give people timelines, milestones, and deadlines. It will support them in good planning to meet your expectations.  No fair saying, “Do it as soon as possible.” Performance is a function of time, and if people don’t have deadlines, they can’t organize their resources to deliver what you want.</p>
<p>When you strengthen your own Holder Accountability, you also strengthen other people’s Producer Accountability.  If you want more accountability in your workplace, start building it!</p>
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		<title>Want More Credibility? Own Up and Apologize</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 16:32:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jeffrey Ford</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Credibility is essential to being an effective leader.  One of the most powerful ways to build credibility is to own up to something that didn’t work and apologize for it.</p>
<p>When Ed Koch was mayor of New York, he was concerned about the number of accidents resulting from bikers darting in and out of traffic. Determined <p>Continue reading <a href="http://professorford.com/2010/02/04/want-more-credibility-own-up-and-apologize-2/">Want More Credibility? Own Up and Apologize</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Credibility is essential to being an effective leader.  One of the most powerful ways to build credibility is to own up to something that didn’t work and apologize for it.</p>
<p>When Ed Koch was mayor of New York, he was concerned about the number of accidents resulting from bikers darting in and out of traffic. Determined to solve the problem, he had “bike lanes” painted on the sides of city streets. But instead of making things better, the bike lanes actually made things worse. Drivers, undeterred by the double yellow lines identifying bike lanes, crossed them so frequently that police could not write enough tickets, and accidents involving bikers increased. As a result, Mayor Koch had the bike lanes removed, ending a futile exercise that cost the city millions of dollars.</p>
<p>Plenty of editorial space was given to criticizing the blunder and Koch’s poor judgment. Reporters, looking for blood, sought interviews with the beleaguered mayor. In one television interview he agreed to, which was scheduled to last thirty minutes, the host was armed with a list of questions that were sure to make Koch look bad. The host began by asking, “Mayor Koch, you spent millions of taxpayer dollars to paint those bike lanes only to remove them. That tax money could have gone to valuable social services. What do you have to say for yourself?”</p>
<p>Pausing, Mayor Koch replied, “You’re absolutely right. It was a huge mistake. I made the wrong decision, and I apologize.” The host, stunned by the mayor’s response, gathered herself and proceeded through her list of questions, each of which was an accusation of some kind. To each accusation, Mayor Koch gave a similar response, admitting the mistake and apologizing for it. The interview lasted for only five of the scheduled thirty minutes after which the topic was dropped, never to be raised again.</p>
<p>Mayor Koch’s success in this interview demonstrates the power of what we call Closure Conversations. By acknowledging the facts that New Yorkers already knew—that the bike lanes were an idea that didn’t work—and then apologizing for it, Mayor Koch completely disarmed the issue and brought it to a close. In the process, he restored some of his credibility and the confidence New Yorkers had lost in his stewardship of the city.</p>
<p>Closure Conversations can restore credibility and confidence, reduce resentment, build accomplishment and accountability, add velocity to projects, and increase the engagement of participants and potential participants.  Try them – they work.</p>
<p>[From<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Four-Conversations-Daily-Communication-Results/dp/1576759202/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1265300791&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank"> “The Four Conversations: Daily Communication that Gets Results”</a> by Jeffrey and Laurie Ford, Berrett-Koehler Publishers, p. 131-2]</p>
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